Men’s primary need is RESPECT and SUPPORT. Both are received through trust, acceptance, appreciation, approval, and encouragement.P.S. Most men don’t want just more sex in their marriage … it goes deeper than that!
Wives, submission doesn’t mean giving in or being a doormat; it’s a gift of your will. It means submitting to God first, and then choosing to serve, respect, and be your husband’s #1 supporter. Even when a man is less than a Superman, he needs the respect of his wife. Men want to be part of something significant, something that will make a difference, something bigger than themselves. Men want to be the hero!
Men are action-oriented, whereas women are verbal. So for men words are thrifty! What impresses them is what a person does, not what they say.
PUT INTO ACTION
What can wives do to show their husbands RESPECT and SUPPORT? Here are a few pointers to make him feel like a HERO.
LET HIM BE THE “BOSS”
Let him decide where you’ll go for fun. Maybe you’re not 100% into playing golf, but if this will make him happy, share this experience with him, he will appreciate it.
The same applies to your sex life. Allow him to express his desires, and give your best to make him feel desired too.
SUPPORT HIS IDEAS
Whether they are business or personal, just the fact that he is sharing them with you should mean a lot. Show him respect and love by supporting and helping him develop the ideas further.
ENCOURAGE HIM MORE
When was the last time you told him he was doing an amazing job? Men appreciate being reminded about all the amazing things they do.
DOLL UP FOR HIM
Surprise him! Wear his favorite outfit and throw on some make-up. Set a reminder to start getting ready before he comes home.
Men love seeing beautiful things, whether it’s landscape, painting, or a pretty wife!
